How to Enjoy (Utilize Time Properly) Being Single

1. Say yes to every opportunity to learn, grow and meet new people.
2. Be grateful for what you have. After the grieving period, focus on what you do have for example, good health and a good support system of family and friends.
3. Don't be afraid to invest yourself in deep relationships with other people. You don't have to be dating somebody to have a intimate and fulfilling relationship with them. Don't be afraid to open up and be vulnerable sometimes.
4. Decide for yourself if there are aspects of your life or your personality that you would like to change and do it. You are your best evaluator. You don't need to listen to those people who tell you that you are single because you are too "picky", too fat,or too old to meet someone else.
5. Ignore the toxic people in your life. It is easy to recognize them. Their negative words of fear and discouragement sap your energy.
6. Think about all the things you can do because you are now single. You could take off and go travelling without discussing it with somebody else. You can watch TV all day without being called lazy. You don't actually have to do these things but, sometimes, just the knowledge that you could is enough to make you feel great.
7. Invest in yourself. Save some money and get a professional massage. Get a manicure and pedicure .... anything that nurtures your body and lifts your spirit.
8. At times small things can tend to pull you way down. Try to see the beer mug half full instead of half empty, in other words try to see the brighter side of things.

THINK AND DREAM CREATIVELY.
1) Believe it can be done.
2) Don't let tradition paralyse your mind.
3) Ask yourself daily, "How can i do better?" There is no limit to self-improvement.
4) Ask yourself, "How can i do more?" Capacity is a state of mind.
5) Practice asking and listening.
6) Stretch your mind. Get stimulated.

YOU ARE WHAT YOU THINK YOU ARE.
1) Look important; it helps you think important.
2) Think your work is important.
3) Give yourself a pep talk several times daily.
4) In all of life's situations, ask yourself , "Is this the way an important person thinks?" Then obey the answer.

MANAGE YOUR ENVIRONMENT: GO FIRST CLASS.
1) Be environment-conscious.
2) Make environement work for you, not against you.
3) Don't let small thinking people hold you back.
4) Get your advice from successful people.
5) Get plenty of psyckological sunshine.
6) Throw thought-poison out of your environment
7) Go first class in everything you do.

Think Like a Leader
1) Trade Minds with the people you want to influence.
2) Apply the "Be-Human" rule in your dealings with other.
3) Think progress, believe in progress, push for progress.
4) Take time out to confer with yourself and tap your supreme thinking power.